Joe Orlow talks about Chaim
Levin’s complaint that a Beth Din accepted a GET from a man who was a
vegetable. Comments from Rav Dovid Eidensohn.
A report about a Bais Din in Eretz Yisrael has
been brought to my attention. The Bais Din was petitioned by a wife seeking a
divorce from her husband. The husband is in a state where he is
uncommunicative. Let me expand here for a moment why I use the
term "uncommunicative". There are cases where people come out of
comas after years. A while back there was an article about a normal boy who was
"missing" a part of his brain. The amazing thing is that when someone
does not have activity in this part of the brain, doctors will declare this
person "brain dead". Yet this boy, without this section, was fine.
Experts like brain surgeons and others who study the brain probably have many
cases that don't fit the accepted medical models. This is important to consider
in light of the following. The Bais Din decided that they could act on
the husband's behalf. This is without precedent in Halacha, according to my
understanding. The husband, being alive, cannot give his wife a Get. So his
wife remains his wife. But the Bais Din decided that were the husband to be
communicative, he would communicate that he wants to give his wife a Get
because he, the husband, is in an apparently permanent uncommunicative state.
So the Bais Din "divorced" the wife.
The Bais Din issuing this ruling was overruled
by a higher court in the Bais Din system known as the "Rabbanute".
The higher court decided the wife remains married. Then the higher court of the Rabbanute was
overruled by a civil court. The civil court said the Rabbanutes's lower court
ruling remains in effect and that the wife is divorced. This raises two questions:
(1)
What kind of education and vetting is there
for Rabbanute judges? Clearly, the lower court did not act according to
Halacha. [Comment from RDE –Major
rabbis in America such as Moshe Heinemann in Baltimore, Hershel Schachter in
New York, and Shmuel Kaminetsky in Philadelphia promote forced Gittin by
humiliating husbands and such devices, something clearly forbidden by all
commentators to the Shulchan Aruch in laws of Kesubose 77 paragraphs 2,3.
Plainly, these rabbis, the cream of the students of Rabbi Aharon Kotler and
Rabbi Yosher Ber Soloveitchik, do not follow the Shulchan Aruch, as all of the
commentators there forbid pressuring a husband to give a GET. I spoke to Moshe
Heinemann and to a student of Herschel Schachter while the student was on the
phone with Schachter, and I am sure that Schachter does not know the laws of
Gittin either. Shmuel Kaminetsky is considered by the Agudah to be a Gadol but
the major poskim rabbis who criticized him for telling a married woman to
remarry with no GET and make mamzerim had only derision for him. The Gaon from
Brisk in Israel said that Kaminetsky is forbidden to teach Torah.]
(2) What kind of high court puts itself in a
position where it can be overruled by a civil court? [Commentary from RDE - This took place in
Israel where the majority are not Orthodox Jews. And yet, the government
accepted Orthodox rabbis to have official government positions. Having little
choice because of their minority status, many prominent rabbis accepted that
Orthodox rabbis will have governmental power but not Conservative or Reform
rabbis, and with this came the problem of the government courts who can
overturn at least some rabbinic decisions.]
In the U.S. we are in a similar position where
unlearned and/or renegade Batei Din are releasing women wrongly from marriages.
Furthermore, civil courts, under so-called "Get Laws", force Gittin,
thus leading to women wrongly released from marriages. This leads, in some cases, to Mamzerim being
born.
[Commentary by RDE – Joe is right about that
and in his original paper continues about the great problems of Kiddushin
making women helpless if the husband does not want to give her a GET. Let me
explain a bit. I believe that a woman who won’t honor Kiddushin by remaining
with their spouse even when the marriage is broken until the husband gives a
GET willingly, is forbidden to make Kiddushin. And to remain single is also a
sin, as taught in Shulchan Aruch. The only solution is to marry with Pilegesh.
Pilegesh is a real marriage and the children are the true family of the
parents. The basic condition is for the woman to come to the husband’s house
and live there with him as husband and wife, with the understanding that there
is no Kiddushin, but Pilegesh rules, so that either spouse can leave whenever
they want to, with absolutely no penalty. The couple must behave as a married
couple regarding not having relations with others. If somebody wants to marry
with Pilegesh another thing is to have a rabbi tell a few other rabbis and people
in the community that these two, the husband and wife of Pilegesh, are not
married with Kiddushin. Again, in my blog torahhalacha.blogspot.com I devote
more detail to Pilegesh. Anyone interested can write to me email at eidensohnd@gmail.com or call me at 845-578-1917.]
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